Posted on Sep 16, 2025.
Cape Town is that rare kind of destination that doesn’t just impress - it dazzles. A city where oceans meet mountains, cultures mix effortlessly, and the LGBTQ+ community is not just welcomed, but celebrated. Whether it’s your first or your 15th visit, this city wraps you in a big, beautiful hug.
And when it comes to where to stay? We've done the homework (and a few room service tastings) to bring you our favourite gay-friendly hotels in Cape Town. These are the places we return to time and again for romance, relaxation, and that unmistakable feeling of being right at home.
Camissa House is so pretty you’ll want to post it… but also keep it your little secret
Camissa House is the kind of place you almost don’t want to share. Intimate, elegant, and perched high above the city, this boutique hotel has just eight beautifully designed suites, inspired by the colourful fynbos and wildlife of the Cape Floral Kingdom. Each room is a beautifully crafted sanctuary, offering tranquil escapes and some providing magnificent views of the city and Atlantic Ocean from large private balconies.
It’s fully inclusive, so expect premium drinks, hearty breakfasts, and around-the-clock butler service to keep the good times flowing. End a day of city exploration on the rooftop terrace, cocktail in hand and taking in a sunset that lingers in your memory long after the moment has passed.
Stay steps from the V&A Waterfront at the One&Only Cape Town and enjoy big rooms, bold flavours, and Table Mountain views you’ll never forget
The One&Only is Cape Town’s grande dame of glamour, perfectly positioned on the V&A Waterfront. Spacious and stylish, its rooms and suites are the largest in the city, each with a private balcony framing views of either the bustling marina or the iconic silhouette of Table Mountain.
Dining here is an experience in itself, from world-renowned Nobu and the bold flavours of the new ROOI Grillroom to leisurely poolside lunches at Isola.
For moments of pure escape, the award-winning Spa Island awaits with lush gardens, serene treatment rooms, and a heated infinity pool. Every detail is designed for indulgence, from curated wine tastings to private art tours, making the One&Only a seamless blend of luxury, convenience, and style at one of Cape Town’s most glamorous addresses.
Find classic charm and modern comfort at Cape Grace, with waterfront views, warm service, and spaces made for romance
Cape Grace blends timeless charm with a fresh, contemporary edge, perfectly positioned on its own private quay in the heart of the V&A Waterfront. African influences are woven into every corner of the interiors, while service is delivered with the kind of warmth that makes every guest feel like they truly belong.
Heirloom Restaurant celebrates local flavours with a refined touch, while the reimagined Bascule Bar has transformed into a sultry speakeasy, perfect for cocktails before dinner.
When it’s time to slow down, the Fairmont Spa offers soft light, soothing treatments, and private spaces where couples can reconnect after a day in the city. With romance in its DNA and an intimacy few hotels can match, Cape Grace remains one of Cape Town’s most beloved addresses: graceful, welcoming, and unforgettable.
Stay at Ellerman House in Bantry Bay and enjoy ocean views, world-class art, fine dining, and over 10,000 bottles of wine to choose from
An intimate retreat in Bantry Bay, offering just 13 rooms and two private villas, each with sweeping views of the Atlantic. It feels wonderfully private, yet every detail is dripping with sophistication. The hotel is home to one of South Africa’s most significant private art collections and boasts a wine collection of over 10,000 bottles, making it as much a cultural experience as a luxury stay.
Dining is a highlight, with seasonal menus crafted to showcase the Cape’s finest produce. OneEighty serves seasonal menus that celebrate Cape flavours, and CURATE offers a fine-dining experience that reimagines South African cuisine paired with rare vintages in the Wine Gallery. The 24-hour Guest Pantry is always stocked with homemade treats, while Bar Roc sets the scene as the ocean turns to gold.
From sundowners on the terrace to personalised culinary experiences, Ellerman House is where Cape Town’s art, wine, and ocean converge in seamless harmony.
Escape to Kensington Place in Higgovale, where bold design, private terraces, and a quiet city setting create the perfect Cape Town retreat
Tucked into the quiet slopes of Higgovale, this boutique stay offers eight spacious rooms, each individually styled with bold art and modern touches. Private terraces overlook views of the garden, Table Mountain, or the city skyline, while interiors are creative and contemporary. The location is more than ideal, and set in a peaceful residential pocket just a short walk to Kloof Street’s buzzing restaurants and bars, and minutes from the V&A Waterfront or Camps Bay.
Dining centres on the intimate Kensington Place Restaurant, serving a fresh seasonal menu alongside an all-day à la carte breakfast. With its sense of privacy, personal service, and chic design, it’s a favourite for couples seeking a relaxed city escape.
Love shines brighter in Cape Town, where every sunset is a celebration of pride, freedom, and togetherness
Cape Town embraces inclusivity at every turn. South Africa’s progressive constitution protects LGBTQ+ rights, and the Mother City takes it further with a welcoming spirit and a lively, visible queer community. The atmosphere is relaxed and open, making it easy to feel at home.
Whether it’s rooftop bars, drag brunches, vineyard picnics, or strolls along wild Atlantic beaches, Cape Town offers endless ways to celebrate love in all its forms.
From De Waterkant’s rainbow crosswalk to romantic stays across the city, Cape Town is one of the world’s most LGBTQ+-friendly escapes
Absolutely! De Waterkant is known as Cape Town’s Pink District. It's a lively mix of queer-owned cafés, cocktail bars, boutique guesthouses, and that iconic rainbow crosswalk on Somerset Road. It's stylish, central, and full of character.
Yes. Cape Town is widely considered one of the most LGBTQ+ friendly cities in the world. Many of us call this city home, and we wouldn’t have it any other way. We’ll make sure your experience is as safe and welcoming as it is unforgettable.
We’ve stayed at all of these fabulous hotels and enjoyed activities in the area to find the best of the best for you. Whether you’re dreaming of a romantic escape or a fun-filled city break, our Travel Experts are here to make it happen, with insider tips, tailored recommendations, and all the extras that make a trip truly special.
Get in touch, and let’s plan your perfect Cape Town stay.
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